Karva Chauth is of great importance
for married Hindu women but the festival is seen as a big occasion for
women undertaking their first Karva Chauth fast after marriage. A newly
married woman is given utmost importance by relatives and immediate
family members when she observes her first fast for the long life of her
husband. She is showered with blessings of blissful married life and
loads of Karva Chauth gifts especially by her mother-in-law.
First Sargi
Mother-in-law prepares an elaborate Sargi (the pre-dawn Karva Chauth
meal) when her daughter-in-law observes her first fast. She wakes up
much early to prepare a sumptuous and lavish meal inclusive of sweets
and other delicacies for daughter-in-law. Saasu-ma blesses her bahu with
an ashirvaad of Sada Suhagan Raho which means, may you
always enjoy a blissful married life when the latter touches her
feet with reverence. She also presents her daughter-in-law with gifts,
which may be a piece of jewelry or a heavy saree on the first Karva
Chauth.
First Baya
Baya is a gift given to a daughters mother-in-law on the occasion
of Karva Chauth. It usually consists of salted mathris, dry-fruits and
some gifts. This Baya is a little more special when the daughter is
observing her first Karva Chauth. Mothers of newly wed daughters bring
gifts for all her family members. Some utensils are also included in the
baya which are to be distributed amongst women who join the newly-wed on
her first Karva Chauth Puja.
Elaborate Puja Preparations
Elaborate preparations are made for the customary evening Karva Chauth
Puja in a family where a newly wed daughter-in-law observes her first
Karva-Chauth. Married female relatives are invited to participate in the
puja. The newly married woman often wears her bridal lehanga or a heavy
saree and adorns herself with lot of jewelry and make up. After the puja
ceremony she seeks blessings for happy married life from all elder
women. The newly wed woman distributes mathris or utensils amongst the
ladies that were a part of baya.
Gifts from Husband
Husband of the woman who observes her first Karva Chauth feel proud and
great to see her better half observing such a rigorous fast for him. He
gets overwhelmed with love and respect for her wife and pampers her with
loads of Karva Chauth gifts. These days husbands also takes her wife out
for a dinner to save her from the drudgery of days cooking work.








